Not the nicest Thursday

I sadly realized that it is indeed hard when you move away to another country because of the lack of connection and communication with the people you love the most.

Anyway, some friends keep saying that it is only due to the 7 hour difference that we haven’t been able to talk as usual. But is it really? Is that the reason why I haven’t been able to talk as much as I would like to with my loved ones?

For me that sounds more as an excuse.

And what has really hit me the most these last couple of days is realizing that I am usually the one who reaches out first. I’m the one who puts all the effort to maintain the relationships. I’m the one who is always keeping in touch, making sure they are alright, sharing, sending pictures and voice messages. The saddest thing here though is that I’m not getting that in return.

And I saw this quote yesterday. And it hit me.

And it goes like this » You are not selfish for wanting the same energy and love you give».

And yeah, I am not. I am not asking for too much.

How my first week in Paris looked like:

Exploring.
Biking.
Driving! Omg, the first time I was so scared and confused because everyone drives here like crazy. They yell at you, swear at you, and bla bla bla. But I’m getting used to it, unfortunately. The only good thing tho is that I know how to move around without a gps (; Nothing compares to when I first went to the grocery store and it took me 1 hour to get there because I got lost several times even though I was using Google maps, and you know something? The grocery store is just 11 minutes away from home lol.
Hello you.
Working, yes. And eating pain haha.
Exploring Paris at night with the Milgroms.
Trying quiche Lorraine and missing Mexican food lol ;(
Can you hear that sound? It’s so crispy!
My second week heeeere. Exploring Rueil a litttle bit.

What if I tell you that…

I’ve been thinking lately that I feel like falling in love.

It really is not because I’m in Paris, the so much called “city of love”.

I feel ready.

Ready to give everything I can to someone 🙂

Does that sound super lovey dovey?

If you jump, I jump. Everybody know this quote actually. However, I saw this picture and it inspired me. I thought it was cute. I felt like falling for someone but not only to be lovers, but to be friends. Best friends.
And in the evening I go. I look for a place where I feel connected to nature and admire my surroundings. And in the evening I think, I dream, I sigh. I imagine.

P-a-r-i-s, mi amor.

If I had to describe you with a couple of words, it would take me some minutes to find them. It would bring me back to the most exquisite memories I have so far of this lovely place.

From fresh lavender scent while walking on the streets, carried away by the wind, to buttery-crispy-soft-perfect «pain». From elegance and fashion, to traditions, food, cheese, architecture, history and ART.

France has so much to show, so much to give and so much to be admired of.

So, as simple as it may sound, without hesitation I know I’ve fallen in love with you, Paris.

People may say I’m a dreamer, way too romantic, way too passionate. But, am I?

I’ll attach a couple of pictures that can describe the way I see Paris so far.

Enjoy!

Paris is as sweet as a “pain au chocolat”
Rainy days, lovely days.
Lavender scent, your favorite smell.
Morning croissants.
Fresh.
Cozy cafe.
Carrying a “Tradition” in my bike basket on my way home.
Breath taking views.

Pastries!
Oh la la. Des fromages

Paris, Je t’aime

It’s time to write about my first day in Paris!

My flight went by smoothly, which is good, but surprisingly I hadn’t slept at all the previous night. (Still experimenting this horrible jet lag), so I was tired, anxious, nervous, and very hungry. Also, the airport was so crowded and I was feeling so lost. Didn’t know where to go to, plus I was kind of lazy to think on taking the train. To be honest, I ended up taking an Uber that charged me 80 euros! Really? That’s crazy! You never pay that in Mexico nor in the US for a cab or an Uber, but what can I say? This is Paris!

Then it took me about 40 minute to get to my place. I was so freaking tired and hungry that I just wanted to close my eyes and take a little nap, but the driver wanted to make conversation and he wouldn’t stop talking. It was kind of annoying, I’m not going to lie. He kept saying things like almost reassuring that Paris is not dangerous at all and that there’s a huge difference between the rich and the poor. And I was like… okay. I seriously was very cold, which I’m not like that regularly, however I was so tired that I didn’t even feel like talking. Sorry not sorry.

Then getting to my place was exciting but it also made me feel anxious to get everything out of my suitcases and start unpacking. I didn’t know what to do first. I wanted to eat, unpack, shower, and sleep.

But hey, I made it!!! I made it here!

So first day was pretty much all about “sleeping”, cleaning, unpacking, catching up with my loved ones and resting. But you want to know something? A big part of me was already so anxious to get out and explore!! Loved the Paris vibe already. Oh, and by the way, I’m not technically living in Paris. I’m at a tiny town called Rueil-Malmaison, which is about 20 min by metro to the Eiffel Tower. Not bad at all! And let me guys tell you that this tiny cute town is so gorgeous.

Exploring pretty streets in Rueil Malmaison.
My first video walking haha.
What can I say? My second day in Paris and. I’m eating McDonald’s. Oops. I needed some bad food, plus after living in the US for three years it is understandable, right? I know, I feel bad bc I wanted to eat a crepe so bad or some authentic French food, but I was feeling so lost and shy to practice my French on my second day here. Same old. It never fails I guess. Sad to admit it, haha.
I’ve literally lost count on how many pain au chocolat I’ve eaten here. Someone told that it is pretty basic, but for me it’s not. It’s just so buttery and crispy.

What about München?

Ok, what can I say about this place? It’s simply gorgeous! Loved how neat it looks even though it has an old vibe type of buildings. People are kind of cold, yes, but oh my, the city is absolutely beautiful!

First minutes in Munich and I already knew I wanted to go back. It just caught me.

Cute picture from the Airbnb room! Let me tell you that’s in a very nice location, close to everything pretty much! Lucky me I found this place even though it was funny when I realized that the “room” didn’t include a bed, it was actually a couch lol. But it was worth it. Host was AMAZING! A lady in her mid 50s, Peruvian, a writer. She was super sweet and welcomed me to her place like a daughter. She even took some time to show me around!!
This was my first meal of the day. I was craving pizza SO BAD! I mean, after eating food at the airplane? It’s reasonable, right? Annddd this was from a cute little Italian restaurant around the corner. They looked at me kind of weird went I called to order the pizza at 11 am! But hey, don’t blame me. Jet lag is the worst, and I was just really hungry.
Exploring secret/hidden quiet streets. Charming.

I don’t remember the name of this place, but it’s closed to Marienplatz. And I loved how red it looks with the flowers, and how quiet and perfectly symmetrical. Lots of people were sitting at the benches, enjoying some time alone, listening to music or chatting with friends.
So let me talk about my experience before getting this latte and tart. So I went to grab some gelato, but it turned out that nobody spoke English, they didn’t accept dollars (of course), and they didn’t accept credit card. I couldn’t pay it because I had no cash and no euros with me. U fortunately.
They literally took the ice cream away from me after taking such a long time deciding which flavor bc nobody wanted to help me understand some German. Gosh! Like really? People were staring at me like if I was from another planet.
And that actually was the first moment I felt slightly homesick. Then I called my German friend and explained it to her. She actually made me feel better. I’m glad I have her in my life. But anyway, that’s why I ended up at a cafe ordering a latte that I didn’t even want and eating a lemon tart, which was pretty good. However I was still craving the gelato.

So many pictures about me! The Airbnb host was super nice that she even suggest taking tons of pictures of me in these cute places we went to. Tbh, I was feeling half zombie half juman, but there I was walking in the streets of a lovely city known as Munich.

Weather was humid and hot. I really wasn’t expecting it to be like that at all.

The gelato I wasn’t able to get. That’s funny though. Kinda hilarious actually.
Et voilà! My favorite place so far. I don’t even know how to put it into words, but it was an experience from another world. Almost like a dream. It melt my heart and made me think “I’m really so lucky to be here doing this solo trip.” What a day!!! I’m still thrilled by the idea of coming back to you, Munich. Don’t forget about me. Not yet.